The Balanced Cans Represent the Need for Balance across Six Crucial Areas of Marriage.

The Balanced Cans and the Need for Balance in Marriage

We had a great time at the recent marriage seminar at Thompsonville First Baptist Church in Thompsonville, Illinois.

One the things we stressed is that there is a need to be at least somewhat successful in each of six crucial areas of marriage.

In fact, the more you can be balanced across all of those areas, the greater degree of success you are likely to have in your marriage.

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Pastor John Robinson

Pastor John Robinson Was a Great Host

Pastor John Robinson did a great job of hosting the event. He did more than double duty with many of the tasks he performed.

Also, Tracy Clem served us well by implementing some of the technical aspects of sound and PowerPoint.

Bro. John even did much of the preparation for the delicious meal that the couples enjoyed before getting into the actual content of the meeting.

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Holding my trusty back pack, I was going to convert Rhonda to a love of camping

Holding His Trusty Back Pack, Randy Was on a Mission to Convert Rhonda to a Love of Camping!

Randy told his infamous story about a hilarious camping trip that he took his family on, in which his mission was to convert his wife to a love of camping.

Many parallels can be drawn to requirements for a successful marriage from the joys and perils of camping trips.

In fact, each of the six keys to marital bliss find their presentation in an analogy to different aspects of the camping experience.

Men, what do you and Michael Jordan have in common?

Moving Into Some More Light-Hearted Moments, Randy Asked, "Men, What Do You and Michael Jordan Have in Common?"

Here is our free-throw shooter from the audience.

Here Is Our Free-Throw Shooter from the Audience

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Rhonda, the captain of our cheer-leading team lead us all in a rousing cheer.

Rhonda, Our Cheerleader Captain, Led Us All in a Rousing Cheer

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Watch out! No one knew when the ball would be thrown to them.

Watch Out! No One in the Audience Knew When the Ball Would Be Thrown to Them, But It Sure Did Help Keep Them on Their Toes!

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His Wife Looked on with Admiration and Fear as He Played the Part of the Backboard. (He was allowed to catch the ball, though, if it came toward his face!).

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Yea! He Made the Free Throw.

Yea! He Made the Free Throw.

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Randy and Rhonda Waiting to Go on Stage Again

Randy and Rhonda, Waiting to Go on Stage Again for the Closing Session

Aside from the men finding out what they and Michael Jordan had in common, the ladies found out that they had that trait also.

We had a couple of practical breakout sessions with some serious moments too, but for much of the evening, we could have our light-hearted moments–even as we looked at some serious topics.

We would love to have you come and join us at an event like this when we are in your area.

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Randy has just written two articles for StreetArticles.com. One is about nurturing our love and building relationships that last. The other is about what a wife can do when her husband seems to be distancing himself from her. Go to Street Articles and check them out.

We are excited about the upcoming marriage-enrichment seminar at First Baptist Church in Del Rio, TX

Del Rio Sign Up Form

Click Here for Sign-up Form

If you will be in the Del Rio area on June 4, we invite you to come and see us. Please note that Rhonda will not be accompanying me (Randy) on this trip, but it will be a great time anyway.

Please notice that I will be talking about: “Don’t Just Be In the Marriage Game–Go for the Championship,” “How to Break the “Crazy Cycle!” and “Six Keys to Marital Bliss.” We have a lot of fun during this evening even while we deal with some serious topics. See the comments in the previous blog post to see what others said about a very similar event to this one.

Here is the link to to get to the sign up form and for more information: http://www.fbcdelrio.com/#/events-eventos/marriage-enrichment.

About a year-and-a-half ago, I went on a mission trip with the Many Hands of Christ ministry to Acuña, Mexico, and was introduced to Pastor Jeff Johnson, who was very gracious to the team. At that time, I had just finished the book, The LOVING Way to a Successful Marriage: Six Keys to Marital Bliss. That evening he invited me to come and speak to his congregation the next time Many Hands of Christ would be in the area! That is now in the making.

We hope you can come and visit us (the mission team) on that evening.

We had a wonderful time at the marriage and couples’ relationship seminar at Thompsonville First Baptist Church last weekend.

Randy and Rhonda Carney Will be Speaking at the Marriage Seminar at Thompsonville First Baptist Church

Randy and Rhonda Carney

Pastor John Robinson did a wonderful job of being our host for the evening, and Tracy Clem helped with the sound, PowerPoint and other technical details. We also appreciate Rusty Carney being our photographer, and we hope to post some of those pictures here soon.

How did it go? Well, Rhonda and I had a good time, and that is always a good sign.

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Here are comments made about the event:

“This was a great program! I loved the scale for the 10 items important in a marriage. I am excited to meet the needs with my husband. Thanks for showing us a great relationship.”

“I like how easy and relaxed the session was and no pressure.”

“Enjoyed it very much. Appreciate the example of the Carney marriage.”

“Men’s breakout session was excellent. Questions and discussion in breakout sessions could be interesting.”

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When asked about the best ideas the participants received and planned to use, we were told the following:

“Do what you need to do in your marriage for God.”

“Taking more initiative to go out of my way to meet more of his need and be more thoughtful and complimenary.”

“Tips on how to meed the need for affection.”

“The Energizing Cycle!”

“Don’t ’stonewall.’”

“Breakout session”

“To encourage my husband daily.”

“Act and react motivation”

So, you can see that we had a good time. We are looking at combining events like these with our fundraising option. (We will put up a page about that on this website soon.)

If you would like to book Randy for your event (any area), click on “Request Randy” above. If you would like to have both of us (mostly local area only), mention that in the comment box when you go to the request page.