10 Ways To Get Your Ex Boyfriend (or Husband) Back And Keep Him

Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

This Works for Getting Your Husband Back Too!

This title may seem a little strange for a website that is primarily about marriage; however, sometimes married couples get estranged from each other for a period of time.

So, when that happens, it is important that they get their relationships restored. Many of the principles for doing that are the same for former spouses or for former boyfriends or girlfriends.

If you are hurting because you want to get your boyfriend back, there is help out there to find 10 ways to get you ex boyfriend back and keep him. These same principles work for getting your ex husband back too.

1. Apologize

If your relationship ended because of some stupid misunderstanding there is a chance he still has feelings for you. If one or both of you needs to apologize then all you have to do to get the ball rolling is to be the bigger person and make that first apology.

2. Utilize Available Technology

Another way to get him back is to use the technology we have available to us today. If you do not feel like calling him or are too embarrassed, then email or text him. Set up a place to meet and have lunch or coffee and just talk. Do not start by getting all into what went wrong within your relationship, just talk and keep things friendly.

3. Improve Yourself

Number three on the list of 10 ways to get your ex boyfriend (or ex husband) back and keep him is to try to improve yourself in some way. Once he sees that you have made the changes that need to be made then you may inspire him to do the same and he may even ask for tips on how you are making the changes you are making. If he does ask, then you will have more things to talk about, and maybe can find new similar interests, too.

4. Figure Out What Went Wrong

When wanting to get back with an ex, it can be very helpful to consider what went wrong and who messed up. No, this isn’t about laying blame just for the sake of laying blame, it’s about finding the solutions to the problems that led to the break up of your relationship.

5. Get Good Information to Help You Further

Once you have done that, the rest can fall into place pretty easily. Those of you who are married and looking to improve your marriage, consider six amazing keys to marital bliss as presented in The LOVING Way to a Successful Marriage. If you are not married, but are hopeful that the one you reconcile with will be your future mate, these keys can help you too.

6. Work on Joint Projects

No matter who was at fault, more than likely you both made some mistakes and can benefit from making some changes. This is the best way to start. It can allow you to not ony get back with your ex, but you will both have a much better chance of making things work if you do reconcile.

7. Spend Time Doing Things You Like to Do

It’s also important for you to spend time doing the things you like to do.

8. Each of You Spend Time with People You Enjoy

Spend time with the people you enjoy spending time with. All of this wll allow you some breathing room and time to deal with your own issues.  It will also make the time seem to go a little faster while you are making changes.

9. Talk to Each Other

Once you’ve worked things out you should talk to your ex. There are a lot of ways you can do that and here are the top 10:
email
text
instant message
phone call
mutual friends
letter
ad in the paper
twitter
facebook
and last but never least, the ever popular, skywriting.

It doesn’t matter what method you use, if you follow these 9 ways to get your ex boyfriend back and keep him and do everything you can do to ensure your relationship will be strong this time around, he will most likely be happy to get back together with you.

Here is one more thing you will want to do:

10. Keep Tweaking the Good Things in Your Relationship

People who have relationships that “sparke” always look for good ideas. Those come from resources that talk about successful relationships and marriages, from resources that talk about restoring relationships, and from resources that talk about building each other up.

When it comes to betting back with your ex, I don’t really know if you will get all the information you need to help you on this website, although there is a lot of help here, but I might be able to introduce you to a friend who will be able to help you.

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